officiating chaplain or clergyperson is the best
source of information regarding the manner in
which each ceremony will be conducted.
Roman Catholic
A Roman Catholic wedding may include a
wedding or nuptial Mass. The nuptial Mass will
lengthen the time required for the ceremony and
this aspect should be considered when schedul-
ing the chapel. Preparation for the nuptial Mass
and wedding is generally the same as for any
other Mass except that aprie dieu or double
kneeler for the couple may be used as well as
a sprinkler for holy water. Other items may be
used as the priest directs. When a nuptial Mass is
omitted, a simple ceremony may be conducted.
Eastern Orthodox
An Eastern Orthodox wedding does not
normally include the celebration of the Divine
Liturgy as an integral part of the ceremony. The
wedding ceremony is generally conducted at a
table set near the chapel sanctuary but not
directly at the altar. Prior to the wedding, the
bride and groom traditionally make confessions
and partake of communion. Wine may be used
during the ceremony and may be taken by the
couple from a common cup. Simple wreaths of
flowers may be used as crowns for the couple for
the wedding ceremony; or more ornate silver
and gold crowns may be purchased by the couple
for use in the ceremony. The Orthodox chap-
lain, however, will provide guidance in planning
the ceremony.
Protestant and Other Christian Bodies
Within the *Protestant group and other
Christian groups not specifically mentioned
previously, wedding ceremonies vary widely.
* Protestanta nonspecific term used to denote a
Christian not of a Roman Catholic or Eastern Orthodox
church. The term Protestant should not be utilized
where a more specific term (e.g., Anglican, Lutheran,
Presbyterian, Congregationalist) can be used.
These ceremonies will vary from denominations
which have very formal, prescribed wedding
rites to denominations which have very simple
wedding rites conducted in accordance with the
conscience of the officiating chaplain and the
desires of the couple. The officiating chaplain
will determine the manner in which the religious
rites are to be performed and will direct the
RP in the manner in which the entire wedding
ceremony will be conducted.
THE JEWISH RITES
Jewish wedding ceremonies, customarily, are
not held between sundown Friday and sundown
Saturday. Jewish weddings may occur after sun-
down Saturday or on Sunday. Jewish weddings
do not normally occur on Jewish holy days,
and on certain days between Passover and the
holidays of Shavuot. These customs are gener-
ally observed by the Orthodox, Conservative,
and Reform branches of Judaism.
In Orthodox and Conservative ceremonies,
the ceremony is generally conducted under a
canopy (Chupah) with the rabbi positioned
beside a table on which two glasses of wine are
present. The language used by the rabbi maybe
Hebrew. Yarmulkes (skullcaps) are generally
worn by males.
At Reform Jewish weddings, the service may
be in English or in Hebrew, and the use of the
yarmulkes and the canopy is optional. Only one
glass of wine is generally used at the Reform
ceremony.
The Betrothal Benedictions open the Ortho-
dox ceremony, followed by the ceremony of the
ring, and the reading of the marriage contract
(Kesubah). After the blessing of the wine, the
rabbi passes the glass of wine to the groom who
sips from it and then passes it to the bride. The
ritual is completed in the act of drinking the
second glass of wine by the bride and groom and
the subsequent crushing of the glass under the
grooms shoe. In Reform Jewish ceremonies, the
glass may be left intact. The rabbi, however,
determines how the ceremony will be conducted
and guides the RP, as necessary.
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