command policy. Permission for its use should
be obtained as soon as possible in order to secure
the desired date and hour for the wedding.
Whenever possible, applications should be made
in writing to the chaplains office well in advance
of the event. Any changes or conflicts in the
scheduled use of the chapel facilities should be
immediately noted by the RP and brought to the
attention of the cognizant chaplain or military
supervisor.
There is no charge for the use of the chapel,
but a donation to the chapel fund can be
accepted. Donations which are received are used
to support special ministries as a part of the
Command Religious Program. When a donation
is made by check, it should be made out to the
chapel fund designating the proper account,
such as Protestant, Catholic, or Jewish.
The use of rice and confetti is normally
prohibited inside or outside the chapel. Wedding
receptions are not normally held in the chapel.
Where possible, dressing rooms should be
made available to the bride and groom and their
attendants.
FLOWERS AND DECORATIONS.Rules
for decorating military chapels vary according
to command policy. At the Academy chapels,
flowers, candelabra, and white hangings are fur-
nished by the chapel altar guild and are the
same for all weddings. Two vases of flowers are
usually permitted and may be the only decora-
tions permitted at both informal and formal
weddings.
The aisle posts or reserved pews may be
decorated, or greenery alone may be used in
some chapels.
Generally, military chapels do not furnish
flowers or decorations. However, for chapel
weddings held during the holiday seasons, such
as Christmas and Easter, flowers and decora-
tions used by the chapel for holiday services will
be present.
If flowers or decorations are to be provided
by the couple for the wedding service, the
RP should be aware of the time and date of
delivery, the manner in which they are to be
arranged, and whether or not the flowers are to
be removed after the wedding service.
Any decorations which require alterations to
the chapel (fastened to pews or walls) are not
permitted without the approval of the command
chaplain.
MUSIC.Since wedding ceremonies are
traditionally religious ceremonies, the organist
will usually be asked to play religious wed-
ding music. These selections can normally be ob-
tained for the chapel music file. The selection of
music to be played at the wedding service is
made by the couple in consultation with the of-
ficiating chaplain or clergyperson.
In the case of chapel weddings, organists
who are members of the Armed Forces on active
duty receive no fee for their services. However,
civilian musicians are normally paid for their
services. If an organist and/or soloist are utilized
at the rehearsal, there may be an additional fee.
The RP may assist the couple in determining
the expenses associated with their particular
wedding plans. A handout itemizing normal
expenses would be helpful.
Ensuring that the religious music file or
library is properly maintained and cataloged is
also an important function of the Religious Pro-
gram Specialist. A properly stocked and main-
tained sacred music library can provide organ
and choral music sufficient in quantity to meet
the needs of the chapel music program.
P R E P A R A T I O N O F T H E C H A P E L
BEFORE THE WEDDING.Candles will
usually be lighted 15 minutes before the hour of
the ceremony. The RP or ushers proceed to the
front of the chapel and light the candles with the
aid of tapers. Hand-held matches or cigarette
lighters are considered inappropriate.
The ends of pews are frequently marked by
ribbons or sprays of flowers. A runner is
sometimes used in the chapel to prevent the
bride from soiling her gown and train. If a
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